WITH THESE RINGS offers a surprising contribution to the "marriage conversation." Dr. Frueh sees three marriages within marriage, each a journey, each legitimate in its own right. These journeys create one of the three foundations for recreating vital, stimulating and long lasting marriages. Additionally he invites us into a method for embracing conflict, which he says, can become a pathway to intimacy. With these Rings explains why so many marriages are marginal (and many fail) and offers a new paradigm that will absolutely change the way you look at and live in - marriage.